Violence against criminals or people attacking you is just fine.
I was upset at the Sussiya story but only now saw this at BBC:
The wife, Thamam al-Nawaja, said the settlers had given them 10 minutes to leave an area where they were grazing their animals; when they refused to move the settlers came and beat them.
Well, so there was another narrative.
Not that this justifies violence but maybe the Arabs were tresspassers?